sex relations before marriage

Is sex before marriage! harm the woman ...?
What if sex is done like the same love. Moreover, a more vibrant are the Women? In fact that is expected to function as a bunker is the Women's. In situations like this condition and both will be thinking "WHY NOT?"
More strained again when this pair of lovers have entered the engagement with the commitment and responsibility that seems self-evident on the hands.

Tightness in love, it seems there is no barrier for not doing pre-Marital sex.
But wait, I would like to invite all parties to ponder this issue together.
Men from the start, that he has become its obligations to maintain purity his woman and it was true love
Know the pre-Marital sex is (even if done with love love) is the action of insult / degrade / harass women because the men can not be responsible for the consequences done. The situation becomes unilateral, is up to the men, want the responsibility or not

Situation where one party can do and be "not responsible", = harassment against the other party.
Men can escape without a trace, but women can not. Will lose the purity of women, pregnancy can be judged and the community. Saying sweet sepah out very often thrown into a bitter reality and must be borne by the women.

Therefore there are saying:

Sex for men: "I just drop to drink"
Sex for women, "I'll give my life to you"

How do you think?